My dad died at 64.
I am 52.
And by the time you finish reading this, you are going to be furious. Just like I was.
It started with Salbutamol. The pulmonologist told him it was "only for emergencies," that he would catch his breath in minutes. Six months later, he was already on Combivent twice a day. Then they added Symbicort and prednisone for every flare-up.
The corticosteroids made his face swell. They raised his blood sugar. They thinned his bones until he broke a rib just from coughing. My mom said it was like watching the man she married slowly fade away.
Eight years of changing inhalers. And not once did anyone ask him why his lungs couldn't clear themselves in the first place.
He died suffocating in his own bed. His symptoms were "controlled" on paper. But his lungs inside were turned to cement.
My mom's words at the funeral, which I barely heard through my own sobbing: "They told him to use the inhaler and wait. The waiting killed him."
Three weeks ago, my doctor closed the office door, sat down, and said the same word they used with my dad: obstruction.








